Connection, Repair, Transformation
About Dr. Pilar
With over 20 years of practice as a doctorate-level mental health professional, Dr. Pilar has carefully crafted, tested, and developed a unique approach to therapy.
Through clinical, supervisory, teaching, research, and life experience, her integrative approach combines emotion-based, experiential, internal family systems, transgenerational, somatic, and nature-based therapy—bringing equity issues into consideration in context & when timing is appropriate.
“I became a therapist because I deeply value helping others.”
A Holistic Approach
Some of the most rewarding work I do is to help co-create a balanced, integrated and joyful path forward.
Through a holistic lens, I work with couples, individuals and adult families from diverse backgrounds.
Ofrezco terapia en español y en ingles.
Integrative therapy
The cycle of our lives and the experiences within its phases can be stressful and challenging; change can be difficult, especially within the context of our genders, social class, sexual orientations, and races. My depth of experience with working through traumatic stress & resilience involves novel ways of approaching issues that are somatically informed, relational, and experiential.
Areas of expertise include:
Learning new communication skills to manage anger and decrease conflict
Grief work
Repairing family relationships
divorce, single-parenting and
family blendingRaising children to become
healthy adultsRebuilding trust between partners
Healing from infidelity
Creating sexual intimacy
Being with your body to learn how to listen to its stories, signals, & messages.
Addressing the impact of sexual abuse and other developmental and adult traumas
Being with your organic self, as you embody your true nature and your inherent belonging.
My clients are from many diverse backgrounds and social locations. Together, we collaboratively identify problematic issues and unhealthy patterns, establish goals, and work in an open, nonjudgmental manner. This is a space to be your whole self, and all your parts are welcome.
I believe that our wounds form relationally and also heal through relationship with humans, and other-than-human beings.
Evaluations
Ofrezco evaluaciones psicológicas para inmigración para varios tipos de casos legales, incluyendo:
Perdón por Dificultades Extremas (I-601/I-601A)
Cancelación de Deportación
Asilo
VAWA (Ley de Violencia Contra la Mujer)
Visas U
Visas T
Integration & Harm Reduction
For those who have arranged their own psychedelic journeys, I am available to provide support both before and after to ensure you get the most from the experience. Learning to translate non-ordinary states of consciousness into actual changes in your life is a process.
Supervision & Training
I provide individual and group supervision for both LPCs and LMFTs. I am an AAMFT Approved Supervisor and an Oregon approved supervisor.